in Lifestyle Why Do We Find Fault When Love Dies. by LeXHansplaCE March 13, 2018, 6:59 am 63 Comments 0 SharesTweetSharePinShare+1 Why do we find Fault? Faults come in alot when the lovebisnt the same anymore between partners. #we find fault when love dies.#love #blogpost #anticipate #inspiredpost #instapic #photooftheday #text #comingsoon LifestyleLove Written by LeXHansplaCE I am Menkiti Anthony Obianuju. IamNigerian, iBlog, iCreate, iPlan, iPromote & iAdvertise Welcome to my escape. Read through my posts and do have yourself a good time. See more Previous article Happy International Women’s Day To You Beauties Next article AFSA 2018 is back 63 Comments Leave a Reply ABSOLUTELY TRUE, THE MOMENT THE FEELING ISNT THERE ANYMORE, YOU GET IRRITATED BY PEOPLE YOU PREVIOUSLY LOVED FOR NO STRONG OR TRUE REASON, FOOD FOR THOUGHT. THANKS FOR THIS LEX. Reply You welcome Anonymous. Reply Sad But True (like the Metallica song)! Reply True. Reply This is so sad but it's really true. One day you might wake up and that strong connection has just died. Reply sad thing in emotion… Reply So sad but true. Love is so fickle. But it helps to remember love is not all emotion and physical attraction. Love is a decision you make every day even when you're not feeling it any particular day and especially when times are tough. Reply Spot on. Reply Love is always a tricky thing. I've had some connections that failed, but luckily my marriage is still going strong fifteen years later. Reply am glad to hear this, and your marriage is a testimony that love strongly built lives and stays strong… keep living and always do enjoy your marriage.. Reply I don't really think this is a true statement. you can for sure love someone and find fault in them.. and love them anyway. Reply well said, thanks for your opinion… Reply I think one of the hard parts about love is when you realize your partner is not perfect. You have to learn to accept them flaws and all. I also think it's important not to find fault in your partner but try to compromise and learn how to work together. Reply learning how to work things out together is the best part of it all… Reply Excellent quote. We should not be finding fault but encouraging one another Reply Encouraging ones partner is key. Reply Interesting quote, I'd say. Reply Most def… you should . Hahahaha Reply To be honest, I think this is why they say that love is blind. Because you're okay with all the person you love's imperfections and the moment that the feeling is no longer there, you finally accept that they have faults as well. Reply Blindly its love, cool to say. Thanks for stopping by. Reply Interesting thought! But may not be true all the time as our behaviour most of the times are ruled by the circumstances and situations too Reply Yes to this, circumstances tell a role in things like this, though not all the time. Reply Very interesting quote. Reply Yes Nicole Reply So sad and so true 🙁 Reply Aw! Emotions Reply This is a great thing to remember. We forgive so much when we love. Reply Love is key. Reply I have learned that you have to meet the wrong one before you meet the right person. I believe in that. Reply Well said. Reply Very interesting perspective. I guess that's why most people despise their exes Reply Most… and truthfully this happens. Reply True Love does not die. Infatuation, lust, physical attraction can all fade away. My marriage is 17 years strong. We laugh, talk, work, travel together 24/7. I can't imagine being with anyone else. Remember, even the most beautiful Rose has a few thorns. That, my friend, is life. Reply you are such an amazing person, seeing and knowing how strong your marriage has become is reason to know that love does not die … thanks for stopping by. Reply I am not sure I agree with this, I have fallen out of love and have not looked for faults in my previous partner, and with two of them, I get on better now than I used to before! Reply Cool. Only a few will be this truthful karen. Reply #TrueStory… They say love is blind and when love leaves we see the flaws that always existed… Reply Thats just is, clear on alot of people. Reply #TrueStory… They say love is blind and when love leaves we see the flaws that always existed… Reply In order to minimize that guilt feeling, start thanking your loved one like every single day. Enjoying event moment with them, coz that's the reality of life – we will all have our endings, and it's a matter of when and how. Reply Its a matter of when and how my dear. Reply It's general nature that we find fault first before praise. It can be a sign though that you matter to the other. Reply Hmmmm I pick sense in what you said. *a sign that you matter to the other* Reply A sad one but very true!Very well made in to a poster form. Reply Had to create the image to pass the message faster. Reply Sad but true, as all the others said. But the good things are the one to keep in our heart. Reply yes, we keep the very good things in our heart no matter what. Reply Very sad, but also very true…but then sometimes I wonder…because even though somebody is very important to me I sometimes find faults, simply because I need some break time because I have a hard time being around people all the time…so sometimes it is just me and not that I do not love them anymore^^ Reply i can understand your views on this Biene. Reply It's so sad but it's so damn true! I mean, we're noticing this after we lost it Reply so true Liana. Reply Partially true. Even when in love, we tend to point out faults so we can become a better person. When in love, there's more praise & little fault finding. Once u fall out of love, there's nothing except fault finding. Reply noted points from You… Reply Interesting…and I believe it to be absolutely true. Reply I've learned that people try to find excuses to leave someone, instead of just leaving… Reply I pray mine and my husbands love never dies. I have seen it and it so sad to see. Reply This is very true! Looking for reasons just to clean their conscience. Reply Thank you for the post as others before me said instead of snatching the bandaid off we stick look for reasons to justify leaving. Reply Thank you for sharing such an insightful post! Reply I love this post it makes me realized everything, This is so true but sad Reply I would have to agree. It's not that we're blind, we just manage to see these flaws at a more positive light. Reply There is some truth to this. But hope we can still find the good in any situation. 🙂 Reply I find that there is some truth to this statement. Although looking for the good is always something I try to do. Reply Leave a Reply Cancel reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Name * Email * Website Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Notify me of new posts by email.